What Would You Do?

topic posted Sat, October 31, 2009 - 8:23 PM by  Hummingbird
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Here is the problem. Months ago a friend who did not know that I no longer drink gave me a bottle of expensive burbon for my birthday. The bottle has been setting on a shelf deep in my closet behind some hanging clothes since then. I was going to re-gift it at Christmas. I arrived back home tonight to discover it missing. There is another person living in the house who I have caught lying before. He has a severe drinking problem. Should I directly ask him? Should I search his room while he is gone? There is another person here who is somewhat close to the suspect. Would it be a good idea to ask him? Perhaps I should say something cryptic to his friend such as "If tonight John has gone down a road I think he did you should tell him that if he comes foreward now there will be less trouble."

I am 90% sure he took it. Like I said he has a record of lying.

Any suggestions?
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  • Re: What Would You Do?

    Sun, November 1, 2009 - 7:04 AM
    I would come right out, "Who took my booze!!!? It dosn't matter that you don't drink anymore. They must have assumed that you wouldn't care, but of course, you do. I would draw the boundry right now, or they will be sniffing your panties next, if they arent allready.
    • Re: What Would You Do?

      Sun, November 1, 2009 - 8:47 AM
      I agree with Lobo. I am not into playing games or dropping to such a person's level( snooping in their personal space).... Just straight out ask. And don't be all sensitive when doing it, meaning don't prepare the other person for the question...

      I would say Hello How are you? Did you take my booze? It's not just about stealing. Hell the person went in your room and went through your personal stuff!!

      You should get a lock on your door regardless of how you handle it!!!
  • Re: What Would You Do?

    Mon, November 2, 2009 - 6:39 AM
    Yeah, this has to do with respecting ones personal space. The booze was in hiding which means they were digging through your shit. If they are your roomies, you have the right to know.
    • Re: What Would You Do?

      Fri, November 13, 2009 - 8:58 AM
      I got nothing to add. Great advice people.
      Advocating violence on the perpetrator world be understandable, but wrong.
      • Re: What Would You Do?

        Fri, November 13, 2009 - 9:21 AM
        Allow me to add that, if only this bottle is missing, and it was tucked away, there's very little field for confusion over who took it.

        Hand the fucker a bill for it and a pricing schedule that explains why there are so many surcharges tacked on to the one expensive bottle.

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